Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Why am I a Christian?

Some people may wonder, “why am I a Christian?” I’ve never been specifically asked that question myself, but I’m sure people may have wondered it about me.

I grew up in church my whole life, but that doesn’t mean I had an easy spiritual journey. Being a Christian is hard because it requires you to be like Christ, and that is not an easy task. Only one human was able to attain perfection and that was Jesus, so what chance do I or anyone else have? There is no chance at perfection, but I strive to be my best in order to please God.

But why do I want to please God so much?

Because I have seen what God has done in my life and what he has done in others’ lives. I have seen people healed of cancer and other life-threatening illnesses. And I’m not just talking “oh, this person went for chemo and now the cancer is gone, Praise God!” While yes, I’ve seen that too, what I’m talking about is I know specific people where doctors will tell them they only have months to live or they have an incurable disease or illness but through prayer (and sometimes through miracles), I’ve seen these people healed. What was once there is no longer there. I know of doctors that have been totally stumped as to how it happened.

I personally know people that have been cured of cancer, hepatitis B, and severe drug-addiction among other things. I’ve seen broken families restored, as well as God provide financial or physical resources to those who desperately needed it.

But don’t get me wrong. Being a Christian is not like finding a genie’s lamp, where if you have a problem you can just pray and wish it gone. Many times people turn to God only because they really want/need something. They’ll come calling like “Oh God, I’m months behind on my bills, I’m in danger of being homeless, please help me find a way to pay!” or “Lord, I just got a bad report from the doctor, I don’t know how I’ll be able to handle this. Heal me God!” And sometimes God will answer these prayers and sometimes God won’t. And many times I’ve seen God not answer these prayers and then the person will get all upset and mad with God. “God, why didn’t you help me! I came pleading to you! Why have you forsaken me?” And they may even take it out on Christians- “you’ve got a fake God. If your God was so loving, he would have helped me when I really needed it. Where was he then? You’re a fool for believing.”

And hearing these kinds of things makes me very sad, but also kind of angry. Just so you know- God doesn’t HAVE to answer anybody’s prayers. NONE of us deserve it! We’ve all fallen short of the glory of God. However, God is a loving God that is filled with both mercy and grace. God may not always give us everything we want, but God can provide everything we need. It may not always be by the easy path though, and sometimes people mistake that for God not answering prayer, b/c he didn’t do it exactly as how they wanted it.

But think of it this way. Let’s say you’re not a Christian, or you believe in God in God but may not have a close relationship with Him. You ask God for something (like the above examples for financial relief or healing). If God were to answer your prayer, how would YOU react to it? Would you give the glory to God? Would you tell everyone you see- “God did this for me! It’s all due to Him. I thank Him for his blessings!” Some people might, but many people would not. But let’s say you did give praise to God- okay, great. That’s one thing, but that’s temporary. If you go on living your life as you had been, are you really grateful to him? That’s the equivalent of teenagers that make a mess of the house and never clean up after themselves despite being told all the time to do so and disrespect their parents by also giving them an attitude. But all of a sudden, they get sick, and now they need mom and dad. So mom and dad take care of the teenager. They nurse them back to health and may even spoil them a little to make them feel extra good. And once that teenager is better, he/she may say “thanks mom and dad! You were really there for me.” And the parents will be happy to be appreciated. Things may go well for the next few days or weeks, as everyone is still on that “high” from that bond that was created during that time of “struggle” and “deliverance.” But as time passes, that may fade, and if the teenager goes back to their old ways of making a mess of their house and disrespecting their parents again- are they showing true love and gratitude for what was done for them?

No! The way to show true love and gratitude for what has been done for you is by doing the right thing and living it everyday. For the example above- in order for that teenager to show they grateful for what their parents have done, then they must do as their parents tell them to do and not disrespect them anymore. That would mean more to the parents than a simple “thank you.”

Well it’s the same with God! If God does something for you, then thank him! But don’t just do it with mere words. You need to do it by your actions as well! Give God what he wants from you. He doesn’t ask for much. All he asks is that you honor, respect and love him above all other things. And that’s actually pretty easy, considering we have a lot of stuff that we tend to put ahead of God in our lives (ie. Television, sports, hobbies, even relationships and work).

But going back to my main point- if you think about it, maybe the reason God didn’t answer your prayer is b/c he knows your heart. God knows what we’re thinking and what we’re going to do. So He will see that you won’t be giving the glory for what He has done for you to Him, so why should he answer that prayer for you? It could just be that He knows that you need to continue to go through this trial in order to be fully broken down to the point where you will eventually turn to him.

Now some may balk at that concept and say “what kind of a ‘loving’ God is that? He should love us and help us no matter what because we’re supposedly made in his image! What kind of God would let us go through trials in order to force us to serve him??”

To respond to that- God does help many people that may not “deserve” it. Just to show His love for that person, and maybe one day that person may look back and say “wow, in times of great struggle and need, God really pulled through for me… and how have I repaid him? Maybe it’s time for me to change my ways.” But then again, maybe that person won’t say that, and will die without ever honoring God. That is an example of God’s grace- giving us something that not only we do not deserve but not even being grateful for it either. Now THAT is a Loving God! And in terms of the trials we may go through, God isn’t trying to test you or force you to come to him. If we look at our circumstances, many times it is our own doings that got us into the positions we are in. God gives us free will to make our own choices, and sometimes that includes allowing us to make our own mistakes and suffer the consequences. As for things that seem to come up out of nowhere like some illnesses, maybe God has allowed that to enter your life as a tool to bring you and your loved ones closer to him. He’s not forcing you into a relationship with him, you can live life on your own terms if you like. But doing it on your own is the harder road, and you won’t experience the peace that God gives, which is so unlike the peace that you may experience in the world.

So this ties back into the original question I asked at the beginning- “why am I a Christian?”

I’ve seen God move in people’s lives and felt his presence not only in church congregations but on my own as well. I have just seen and experienced so much not only through those around me but first-hand as well, that there is NO way that I can deny that God is real.

For example, many of you know what I went through in 2007. It was the biggest rollercoaster year of my life with some of the biggest joys but also biggest sadness and trials I have ever experienced. The year started with Ariana and I planning our wedding and deciding to purchase a co-op apartment. Either of these things can be nerve-racking experiences as I know many of you are aware of. There is just so much paperwork, planning and details to go through with both that they can be huge stressors.

So I had those two big projects on my plate, on top of my graduate schoolwork that I was already in the middle of, and then at the end of March of 2007, tragedy struck my family as my dad experienced many strokes in the middle of a heart operation, which left him with severe brain damage and clinging to life.

This just rocked my world, as this happened in a hospital in Connecticut. I had to go and see him in his condition, and then fight for a month to get him transferred down to the Bronx, all the while thinking of him lying in that bed mostly all alone. My dad held on for five months, and those were some of the most difficult months of my life. The wedding planning had kicked into full gear, we got the apartment at the end of June, but now we also had to squeeze in time for renovations before we got married and moved in in October, that and I had to take incompletes in my two classes, as I was unable to fully concentrate on my schoolwork with everything going on.

These are trials that individually could have sent a person into a downward spiral of depression and anxiety. And “little” things just kept popping up that would have driven most people mad. Renovations on the apartment were way behind schedule and starting to go over budget, Ariana had to move out of her apartment the week before the wedding, my dad passed away without a will or specified beneficiaries for certain things, forcing us to begin clearing out HIS apartment as well and get legal services to become an administrator of his estate, I was back in school with a really tough semester ahead, some members of Ariana’s family that were supposed to be a part of the wedding party created some over the top drama causing a huge rift in her family, where many members didn’t even attend the wedding… seriously, if it could have happened, it did during those months surrounding our wedding, lol. And while yes, these times were difficult, I have to say that I experienced a peace the entire time that I just couldn’t explain to you back then. I was able to smile and laugh at that time not because of some coping mechanism where I was hiding my pain. But I just fully had a sense of peace that I knew everything was going to work out and be alright b/c I trusted God and knew it didn’t make sense to worry or get depressed. And all of this was in the face of situations where it could be expected I should feel otherwise! What I’ve learned since that time is that God’s peace is different than the peace that the world offers. The most essential distinction I’ve seen is that God’s peace is not circumstantial. When Jesus spoke of his peace he said “Not as the world gives, do I give to you” (John 14:27). The peace of the world is dictated only and always by circumstances. God’s peace may not always be logical, but that doesn’t always mean that God’s peace is illogical, it just goes beyond mere human logic. Man’s logic fails to factor in the power and sovereignty of God.

Jesus goes onto say in John 14 “…let not your heart be troubled, nor let it be fearful.” The fact that Jesus states for us to not allow our hearts to be troubled or fearful is an acknowledgement that there is a choice involved. The world determines how to feel by what happens to them. The Christian, however, determines how to feel by his/her relationship with God. We are not to give in to the temptation to be troubled or fearful when circumstances do not go the way we desire. In a nutshell, God’s peace is the absence of a troubled heart. We may not always get what we request, but we will always have the peace that it is in God’s hands, not ours.

Now I prayed for many things during that time of my life, and some of my prayers were answered but others obviously were not. I was grateful to God for the prayers he answered and was not mad at God for the prayers he did not answer. This was during a time, that while I was going to church, I still wasn’t living as I knew I should have been. But b/c of God’s grace He still worked in my life, b/c He knew the effect it would have on me. I understood that everything happened in its own way for its own reason. I didn’t understand the exact reasons behind everything then, but as time has passed I can look back and see how God helped me grow, showed me who were my true family and friends, provided for me both financially and physically, and everything HAS turned out well in the end. Were there some trials I would have preferred to not have gone through? Of course, but God knew what I needed in my life.

And I see so many of my friends and family struggling right now with so many different things- broken relationships, substance abuse, sickness, job-related stress, financial stress, sexual pressures, etc. People are looking for peace but aren’t finding it and it hurts me so much, b/c I know the answer but not everyone wants to listen to it. I hope what I’ve shown you today is evidence enough for how God can work in people’s lives and that God loves you and only wants the best for you.

If you’d like to get to know God better, or just talk about things I’d be more than happy to talk and pray with you, just contact me anyway you prefer (phone, e-mail, IM, text, etc). Hope to speak with you soon! I leave you with this verse:

Romans 1:5- “And now through Christ, all kindness [grace] of God has been poured out upon us undeserving sinners; and now he is sending us out around the world to tell all people everywhere the great things God has done for them, so that they, too, will believe and obey him.”

Feeling Patriotic

[Originally posted July 4, 2010]

This song came up on my ipod today as I was driving to my relative's home for our 4th of July BBQ. It's a great song, that actually came out in the 90's and talks about the state of affairs of America and how we've let ourselves go in certain aspects. So many things have gotten out of control due to people in society actively trying to take God out of the equation. It's kind of scary how it's even more true in this day and age.

People may not agree with me, and I'm not saying it's something that needs to be forced down people's throat but I believe, as this song states, that God is the answer to America's problems.

Check out the lyrics to this song (I've highlighted some parts that I really like):

George Washington, Thomas Jefferson
Samuel Adams, First Chief Justice John Jay
Names synonymous with the spirit of our country
Founding fathers of the U.S.A.

Over 200 years ago they shook off the chains of tyranny from Great Britain
By divine call
Citing 27 biblical violations they wrote the Declaration of Independence
With liberty and justice for all

But something happened since Jefferson called the Bible the cornerstone
For American liberty then put it in our schools as a light

Or since "Give me liberty, or give me death," Patrick Henry said
Our country was founded on the Gospel of Jesus Christ

We eliminated God from the equation of American life
Thus eliminating the reason this nation first began

From beyond the grave I hear the voices of our founding fathers plead
You need God in America again

Of the 55 men who formed the Constitution
Fifty-two were active members of their church
Founding fathers like Noah Webster who wrote the first dictionary
Could literally quote the Bible chapter and verse

James Madison said, "We've staked our future on our ability to follow
The Ten Commandments with all our heart"
These men believed you couldn't even call yourself an American
If you subvert the Word of God


In his farewell address, Washington said, "You can't have national morality apart from religious principle," and it's true
'Cause right now we have nearly 150,000 kids carrying guns
To these war zones we call public schools

In the '40's and '50's student problems were chewing gum and talking
In the '90's, rape and murder are the trend

The only way this nation can even hope to last this decade
Is put God in America again

The only hope for America is Jesus
The only hope for our country is Him
If we repent of our ways stand firm and say
We need God in America again

Abe Lincoln said, "The philosophy of the classroom in one generation
Will be the philosophy of government of the next"
So when you eliminate the Word of God from the classroom and politics
You eliminate the nation that Word protects


America is now number one in teen pregnancy and violent crime
Number one in illiteracy, drug use, and divorce
Everyday a new holocaust of 5,000 unborn die
While pornography floods our streets like open sewers

America's dead and dying hand is on the threshold of the Church
While the spirit of Sodom and Gomorrah vex us all
When it gets to the point where people would rather
Come out of the closet than clean it
It's a sign that the judgment of God is gonna fall

If there's ever been a time to rise up Church, it's now
And as the blood bought saints of the living God proclaim
That it's time to sound the alarm from the Church house to the White House
And say, "We want God in America again"


I believe it's time for America to stand up and proclaim
That one nation under God is our demand
And send this evil lifestyle back to Satan where it came from
And let the Word of God revive our dying land

For Jesus Christ is coming back again in all His glory
And every eye shall see Him on that day
That's why a new anointing of God's power's coming on us
To boldly tell the world you must be saved

Because astrology won't save you, your horoscope won't save you
The Bible says these things are all a farce
If you're born again, you don't need to look to the stars for your answers
'Cause you can look to the very One who made those stars

History tells us time and time again
To live like there's no God makes you a fool
If you want to see kids live right
Stop handing out condoms and start handing out the Word of God in schools

The only hope for America is Jesus
The only hope for our country is Him
If we repent of our ways
Stand firm and say
We need God in America again

We need God in America
God in America
God in America again

Guilt & Shame

[Originally posted May 20, 2010]

Guilt & shame are two of some of the emotions people least like to feel. Don’t you hate feeling guilty? Don’t you feel so small and so low when you feel shame? People go to great lengths to avoid feeling these emotions.

However, sometimes people need to feel these emotions in order to correct their actions and set them back on the right path (just like when we were kids and our parents scolded us when we did something wrong. We felt bad, but it helped us to grow into better people).

You have people going out and living their lives in a way that goes against God’s will, even fellow supposed “Christians” who not only try to justify their actions, but also take pride in their sin. Pride can become a dangerous weapon and anyone should be careful how he or she handles it. The Bible speaks against having pride for many reasons- one such reason is that it makes people feel that they themselves have the power, and their life circumstances are all b/c of their own doing. This is not true. While God does give us free will, he can choose to bless or not bless every action that we do. That is why we must always glorify God for our accomplishments because without God’s blessing, it would not be so.

So people begin to take pride & ownership of the sins they commit, because if they are proud of it, then it gives them the power and lessens (and tries to limit) the guilt and shame they’d feel for the sin. It’s hard to go up to someone and tell them what they did (or are doing) is wrong if they are proud of what they have done, isn’t it?

Pride is a tool of Satan. Does that mean you can never feel a sense of accomplishment? No, of course not. For instance, I myself am graduating with my Masters degree in a week. I definitely feel a sense of accomplishment and a certain amount of pride. However, I know this accomplishment is due to the Lord’s help. I went through a lot of tough times while trying to earn this degree and God helped me through all of them. So I know I could not have done it alone and so I give God the glory.

But there is a difference between that and having pride and taking ownership over sin. Some people boast of their sexual activity- talking about how many people they’ve slept with, proud to be baby-mama’s- justifying their actions by saying things like “it’s my body, I’ll do what I want.” “There’s nothing wrong with what I do!” And they always follow it with the Maury or Jerry Springer favorite- “Don’t judge me!”

This phrase is a sinner’s favorite phrase to throw in someone’s face that doesn’t agree with what they do. People especially like to say it to Christians. They take scriptures out of context all like “the Bible says not to judge people! That’s for God to do, not you!”

And yes, the Bible does say not to judge. However, judging and correcting are two different things. Christians are to always love and not judge but 2 Timothy 4:2 states “preach the word of God urgently at all times, whenever you get the chance, in season and out, when it is convenient and when it is not. Correct and rebuke your people when they need it, encourage them to do right, and all the time be feeding them patiently with God’s word.”

This means Christians shouldn’t judge you, but it IS okay to correct you/tell you what you are doing is wrong, as long as it’s done in love.

Look at the example of Jesus in John 8: 1-11, where the people brought before him a woman that was caught in the act of adultery. They wanted to trap Jesus into judging & punishing her. But instead he said, “let he who is without sin cast the first stone.” Everyone at this point felt guilt and shame and couldn’t bring themselves to do it and they walked away. Then Jesus stated to the woman “where are your accusers? Didn’t even one of them condemn you?” “No, sir.” She said. And Jesus said, “Neither do I. Now go and sin no more.

This clearly illustrates that Jesus did not judge the woman, but both he and the woman knew what she did was wrong and he corrected her by basically telling her to change her ways. Did this woman experience guilt and shame after Jesus told her this? The Bible doesn’t specifically say, but I’m sure she did because if she had not, what Jesus did for her would not have had as much impact.

Like I said before- people HATE being told they are wrong and can’t stand feeling guilt or shame. But Christians are called to go out and correct and save the world by leading them to Christ.

The issue comes when it is not done out of love or through love. Christians can’t go up to a woman who has had a baby out of wedlock and call her a “sl*t.” Nor should they go up to a gay male and call him a “f*g.” What does that accomplish? That is not what Jesus would have done.

You also can’t be caught in your own sin and expect to be taken seriously when you try to correct others. For example, you can’t tell someone who is using pot (or other drugs) that they are sinning and should stop, if you are co-habitating with your partner before marriage. Instead of feeling guilt or shame, the person will look for something else to focus on and will just look at your life and say “he/she is telling me I’m doing wrong, but technically so are they! What right does this person have to tell me I’m sinning?”

In the end, that is not an excuse either (although it is a very common one). Guilt and shame are not fun to experience but they exist for a reason. They can help you (in moderate doses, to a degree) grow in character and become a better person. Because if you continue to live in sin (whether you want to believe it is sin or not) then you will never find the true happiness and peace you are looking for in life. If you are sinning and continue to take pride in what you’re doing, then you can’t be surprised when things in life don’t go your way. I see it all the time, people being proud of their sin, but then having a bunch of problems in their lives and complaining about how hard their life is. It is not a coincidence that this is occurring. It’s part of the price you pay when you sin. If you eliminate the parts of your life that cause you to sin, it will put you on the path to experience the peace and happiness you are looking for. But this will only happen if you take ownership of your sin and don’t let your sin “own” you.

I love you all, and hope those who need it take this message to heart. God Bless!

Is being a Christian like being on a diet?

[Originally posted March 8, 2010]

I’ve been praying for all those around me for various things, as well as for myself in terms of helping me spread God’s word. One thing that has gone through my mind is “why wouldn’t people be open to Jesus’ love?” I mean, I know there are plenty of reasons out there, but it’s different for others than it was for me, since I was born and raised in church. I’ve seen both sides of the fence though, and this came to my mind today after some prayer and I immediately began to write it down and I feel that I need to share it right away.

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Many times people feel that getting right with God (and being a good Christian) can be like a diet. The thing is that a diet often has a bad connotation to it and unfortunately, in this day and age, so does Christianity. I want to show you that while there are some parallels, it is not the same thing.

Often churches will say to you (especially as a new Christian) to immediately purge everything that makes you sin from your life. That is the equivalent of crash dieting or fasting without preparation. It doesn’t always work. You may lose “weight” and feel better about yourself at first, but usually you eventually gain everything right back.

Now let me make one thing clear- yes, it is important to get rid of major things that cause you to sin and fall (ex. doing drugs, cheating on your spouse, etc), which is what you would do in a healthy diet (ex. cutting down, sometimes drastically, the number of sweets and salts that you eat- especially based on your health).

But some people need to have this done gradually. This is a VERY fine line to walk and depends on the discipline of the person. Just how some diets work for some people and not others and vice versa. People can be saved only one way (through Jesus), but at different intensity levels.

For example, throwing out all your worldly CDs & DVDs in order to really focus on God may be nice and helpful at first, but if you don’t have the right continued spiritual backing behind it, eventually you’ll crave that stuff again and you may even resent the fact that you got rid of it in the first place and thus begin resenting the church and God (you do not know how many times I’ve seen this… especially amongst teenagers).

I feel that God is putting on my heart to say that you don’t need to be this extreme at first. God will eventually touch you and your spirit will bring you away from these things on its own as you grow stronger in Christ. You can’t force or guilt someone into getting rid of all things because they can become resentful.

For example, there may be a new young Christian that is struggling with lust and pornography. Obviously, this person should get rid of the porn in order to not be tempted anymore, and maybe cut down on their time on the internet to limit access to it. But it may be even harder for that person if you also insist to them they also give up the music they listen to, the way they dress, the books they read and more all at the same time. Some people can do this and come out a stronger Christian in the end but some people just can’t handle that all at once, and as a new Christian they may not have the faith needed to overcome.

As I stated before, this is a very fine line. It really depends on the person, and that is what churches and Christians really need to understand in order to effectively evangelize.

Yes, some people are weaker than others and may need to purge everything in order not to fall, but it requires either discipline or a strong guide to be held accountable to.

I don’t mean this in a way to compromise- not at all. I feel it is important to get rid of all things that cause us to sin, but sometimes, certain people may need to work up to it, just like with a diet. If you do a diet right, it’s not really a diet- it’s healthy eating habits. Little by little, eventually you like the results so much that you’ll go deeper with it. You’ll begin to cut out most (if not all) junk food, start buying organic foods, change the way you eat, etc. Basically in this metaphor being healthier overall is the equivalent to becoming a stronger Christian.

And in the opposite aspect- think about when people are thinking about or starting diets. They may be living an unhealthy lifestyle and not like how they look or feel, so they want the change, but even then it can be hard. But then there are other people that feel they are fine and don’t want to change b/c it means giving up food they love and they’d rather live a “shorter but happier life.” Even though that could mean hardship, death and sadness all around. Often times people look at a diet and say “woah, this is way too hard. I need to give up too much. I’m not going to bother with this. My eating habits/lifestyle isn’t that bad. I’ll manage somehow.” And sadly, this is the exact same reaction many people have toward Christianity.

In the end, for anyone who feels compelled to make changes in their life that will strengthen their relationship with God and their spiritual health that process can happen in small increments that build toward something greater. It doesn’t have to happen overnight. Much like having healthy eating habits, all that’s required is to have an open heart & mind, be committed to make those changes, not condemn yourself if the changes don’t take place right away, and develop the discipline to follow through.

With much love, God Bless!

JE

Another Important Note- The Manhattan Declaration (please read!!)

I came across the following piece (pasted just under the break) not too long ago and had skimmed through it and liked what I saw. So I saved it and promised myself to come back to it. Today, I was in the process of praying about what God wanted me to share next and I started to compile another message or two, but then something told me to really read through this.

So I did, and wow...

The words contained here are amazing. And it crosses along so much with a few of the points I planned on speaking about in the coming weeks. The flesh part of me is almost jealous that I wasn't the one to come up with this, but what this "declaration" touches on is of such utmost importance, that it's not surprising it took a large gathering of individuals (across many denominations) to be inspired by God to put this together. I also found it very interesting that today of all days was when I was inspired to read it (especially once you get to the end and see the Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. reference).

ANYONE who claims to be Christian, Catholic, Methodist, etc (basically any belief in God and Jesus) NEEDS to read this. As I stated, this is a powerful document, and what amazes and impresses me even more about it, is how well it is written. Often times, many Christian speakers/writers have a message where they mean well, but don't bring across their message appropriately, which turns a lot of people (especially those who are not Christians) off. I think this declaration speaks in way that boldly proclaims what we as Christians [should] believe, without being offensive to those who believe otherwise.

I truly feel it's important for everyone to read this document. But please give yourself some time to get through it because it's long- about 7 pages. DO NOT JUST SKIM THROUGH IT! You'll miss some important stuff, and I'd hate for people to take certain things that are stated here out of context and either be offended or turned off. However, I am realistic and understand that the length of this document is daunting, even to the most scholarly among us, (as I stated, even I didn't fully read through it the first time I saw it). So what I'll also do for those among us with "ADD" (lol), is to break the document up into four parts (it already does have sections to it) and post one part each day for the next four days. That way it'll be easier for most to digest. So if you're more interested in reading it that way, once you're done reading my own preamble, you can move on to my next note which will be "part one."

Trust me, I don't copy other people's words very often unless I truly believe what they state. Everything in this document is something I fully believe in and feel very strongly about.

I'd really like to discuss (even debate if you are so inclined) what is brought up in this document. So please, let me know what you think. For further information, the original source for this document is: http://www.manhattandeclaration.org/

If you also agree with this declaration, I also encourage you to take a stand and join in and sign it.

Thanks for reading and God Bless!

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[This is the full document! To begin reading in installments, move on to my next note. Thanks!]

Manhattan Declaration: A Call of Christian Conscience
Drafted October 20, 2009
Released November 20, 2009


Preamble

Christians are heirs of a 2,000-year tradition of proclaiming God’s word, seeking justice in our societies, resisting tyranny, and reaching out with compassion to the poor, oppressed and suffering.

While fully acknowledging the imperfections and shortcomings of Christian institutions and
communities in all ages, we claim the heritage of those Christians who defended innocent life by rescuing discarded babies from trash heaps in Roman cities and publicly denouncing the
Empire’s sanctioning of infanticide. We remember with reverence those believers who sacrificed their lives by remaining in Roman cities to tend the sick and dying during the plagues, and who died bravely in the coliseums rather than deny their Lord.

After the barbarian tribes overran Europe, Christian monasteries preserved not only the Bible but also the literature and art of Western culture. It was Christians who combated the evil of slavery: Papal edicts in the 16th and 17th centuries decried the practice of slavery and first
excommunicated anyone involved in the slave trade; evangelical Christians in England, led by
John Wesley and William Wilberforce, put an end to the slave trade in that country. Christians
under Wilberforce’s leadership also formed hundreds of societies for helping the poor, the
imprisoned, and child laborers chained to machines.

In Europe, Christians challenged the divine claims of kings and successfully fought to establish the rule of law and balance of governmental powers, which made modern democracy possible. And in America, Christian women stood at the vanguard of the suffrage movement. The great civil rights crusades of the 1950s and 60s were led by Christians claiming the Scriptures and asserting the glory of the image of God in every human being regardless of race, religion, age or class.

This same devotion to human dignity has led Christians in the last decade to work to end the
dehumanizing scourge of human trafficking and sexual slavery, bring compassionate care to
AIDS sufferers in Africa, and assist in a myriad of other human rights causes – from providing
clean water in developing nations to providing homes for tens of thousands of children orphaned by war, disease and gender discrimination.

Like those who have gone before us in the faith, Christians today are called to proclaim the
Gospel of costly grace, to protect the intrinsic dignity of the human person and to stand for the common good. In being true to its own calling, the call to discipleship, the church through service to others can make a profound contribution to the public good.

Declaration

We, as Orthodox, Catholic, and Evangelical Christians, have gathered, beginning in New York on September 28, 2009, to make the following declaration, which we sign as individuals, not on behalf of our organizations, but speaking to and from our communities. We act together in obedience to the one true God, the triune God of holiness and love, who has laid total claim on our lives and by that claim calls us with believers in all ages and all nations to seek and defend the good of all who bear his image. We set forth this declaration in light of the truth that is grounded in Holy Scripture, in natural human reason (which is itself, in our view, the gift of a beneficent God), and in the very nature of the human person. We call upon all people of goodwill, believers and non-believers alike, to consider carefully and reflect critically on the issues we here address as we, with St. Paul, commend this appeal to everyone’s conscience in the sight of God.

While the whole scope of Christian moral concern, including a special concern for the poor and vulnerable, claims our attention, we are especially troubled that in our nation today the lives of the unborn, the disabled, and the elderly are severely threatened; that the institution of marriage, already buffeted by promiscuity, infidelity and divorce, is in jeopardy of being redefined to accommodate fashionable ideologies; that freedom of religion and the rights of conscience are gravely jeopardized by those who would use the instruments of coercion to compel persons of faith to compromise their deepest convictions.

Because the sanctity of human life, the dignity of marriage as a union of husband and wife, and the freedom of conscience and religion are foundational principles of justice and the common good, we are compelled by our Christian faith to speak and act in their defense. In this declaration we affirm: 1) the profound, inherent, and equal dignity of every human being as a creature fashioned in the very image of God, possessing inherent rights of equal dignity and life; 2) marriage as a conjugal union of man and woman, ordained by God from the creation, and historically understood by believers and non-believers alike, to be the most basic institution in society and; 3) religious liberty, which is grounded in the character of God, the example of Christ, and the inherent freedom and dignity of human beings created in the divine image.

We are Christians who have joined together across historic lines of ecclesial differences to affirm our right—and, more importantly, to embrace our obligation—to speak and act in defense of these truths. We pledge to each other, and to our fellow believers, that no power on earth, be it cultural or political, will intimidate us into silence or acquiescence. It is our duty to proclaim the Gospel of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ in its fullness, both in season and out of season. May God help us not to fail in that duty.

Life
So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27

I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. John 10:10

Although public sentiment has moved in a pro-life direction, we note with sadness that pro-
abortion ideology prevails today in our government. The present administration is led and staffed by those who want to make abortions legal at any stage of fetal development, and who want to provide abortions at taxpayer expense. Majorities in both houses of Congress hold pro-abortion views. The Supreme Court, whose infamous 1973 decision in Roe v. Wade stripped the unborn of legal protection, continues to treat elective abortion as a fundamental constitutional right, though it has upheld as constitutionally permissible some limited restrictions on abortion. The President says that he wants to reduce the “need” for abortion—a commendable goal. But he has also pledged to make abortion more easily and widely available by eliminating laws prohibiting government funding, requiring waiting periods for women seeking abortions, and parental notification for abortions performed on minors. The elimination of these important and effective pro-life laws cannot reasonably be expected to do other than significantly increase the number of elective abortions by which the lives of countless children are snuffed out prior to birth. Our commitment to the sanctity of life is not a matter of partisan loyalty, for we recognize that in the thirty-six years since Roe v. Wade, elected officials and appointees of both major political parties have been complicit in giving legal sanction to what Pope John Paul II described as “the culture of death.” We call on all officials in our country, elected and appointed, to protect and
serve every member of our society, including the most marginalized, voiceless, and vulnerable among us.

A culture of death inevitably cheapens life in all its stages and conditions by promoting the belief that lives that are imperfect, immature or inconvenient are discardable. As predicted by many prescient persons, the cheapening of life that began with abortion has now metastasized. For example, human embryo-destructive research and its public funding are promoted in the name of science and in the cause of developing treatments and cures for diseases and injuries. The President and many in Congress favor the expansion of embryo-research to include the taxpayer funding of so-called “therapeutic cloning.” This would result in the industrial mass production of human embryos to be killed for the purpose of producing genetically customized stem cell lines and tissues. At the other end of life, an increasingly powerful movement to promote assisted suicide and “voluntary” euthanasia threatens the lives of vulnerable elderly and disabled persons. Eugenic notions such as the doctrine of lebensunwertes Leben (“life unworthy of life”) were first advanced in the 1920s by intellectuals in the elite salons of America and Europe. Long buried in ignominy after the horrors of the mid-20th century, they have returned from the grave. The only
difference is that now the doctrines of the eugenicists are dressed up in the language of “liberty,” “autonomy,” and “choice.”

We will be united and untiring in our efforts to roll back the license to kill that began with the
abandonment of the unborn to abortion. We will work, as we have always worked, to bring
assistance, comfort, and care to pregnant women in need and to those who have been victimized by abortion, even as we stand resolutely against the corrupt and degrading notion that it can somehow be in the best interests of women to submit to the deliberate killing of their unborn children. Our message is, and ever shall be, that the just, humane, and truly Christian answer to problem pregnancies is for all of us to love and care for mother and child alike.

A truly prophetic Christian witness will insistently call on those who have been entrusted with
temporal power to fulfill the first responsibility of government: to protect the weak and vulnerable against violent attack, and to do so with no favoritism, partiality, or discrimination. The Bible enjoins us to defend those who cannot defend themselves, to speak for those who cannot themselves speak. And so we defend and speak for the unborn, the disabled, and the dependent. What the Bible and the light of reason make clear, we must make clear. We must be willing to defend, even at risk and cost to ourselves and our institutions, the lives of our brothers and sisters at every stage of development and in every condition.

Our concern is not confined to our own nation. Around the globe, we are witnessing cases of
genocide and “ethnic cleansing,” the failure to assist those who are suffering as innocent victims of war, the neglect and abuse of children, the exploitation of vulnerable laborers, the sexual trafficking of girls and young women, the abandonment of the aged, racial oppression and discrimination, the persecution of believers of all faiths, and the failure to take steps necessary to halt the spread of preventable diseases like AIDS. We see these travesties as flowing from the same loss of the sense of the dignity of the human person and the sanctity of human life that drives the abortion industry and the movements for assisted suicide, euthanasia, and human cloning for biomedical research. And so ours is, as it must be, a truly consistent ethic of love and life for all humans in all circumstances.

Marriage
The man said, "This is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, for she was taken out of man." For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. Genesis 2:23-24

This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. Ephesians 5:32-33

In Scripture, the creation of man and woman, and their one-flesh union as husband and wife, is the crowning achievement of God’s creation. In the transmission of life and the nurturing of children, men and women joined as spouses are given the great honor of being partners with God Himself. Marriage then, is the first institution of human society—indeed it is the institution on which all other human institutions have their foundation. In the Christian tradition we refer to marriage as “holy matrimony” to signal the fact that it is an institution ordained by God, and blessed by Christ in his participation at a wedding in Cana of Galilee. In the Bible, God Himself blesses and holds marriage in the highest esteem.

Vast human experience confirms that marriage is the original and most important institution for sustaining the health, education, and welfare of all persons in a society. Where marriage is honored, and where there is a flourishing marriage culture, everyone benefits—the spouses themselves, their children, the communities and societies in which they live. Where the marriage culture begins to erode, social pathologies of every sort quickly manifest themselves. Unfortunately, we have witnessed over the course of the past several decades a serious erosion of the marriage culture in our own country. Perhaps the most telling—and alarming—indicator is the out-of-wedlock birth rate. Less than fifty years ago, it was under 5 percent. Today it is over 40 percent. Our society—and particularly its poorest and most vulnerable sectors, where the out- of-wedlock birth rate is much higher even than the national average—is paying a huge price in delinquency, drug abuse, crime, incarceration, hopelessness, and despair. Other indicators are widespread non-marital sexual cohabitation and a devastatingly high rate of divorce.

We confess with sadness that Christians and our institutions have too often scandalously failed to uphold the institution of marriage and to model for the world the true meaning of marriage. Insofar as we have too easily embraced the culture of divorce and remained silent about social practices that undermine the dignity of marriage we repent, and call upon all Christians to do the same.

To strengthen families, we must stop glamorizing promiscuity and infidelity and restore among our people a sense of the profound beauty, mystery, and holiness of faithful marital love. We must reform ill-advised policies that contribute to the weakening of the institution of marriage, including the discredited idea of unilateral divorce. We must work in the legal, cultural, and religious domains to instill in young people a sound understanding of what marriage is, what it requires, and why it is worth the commitment and sacrifices that faithful spouses make.

The impulse to redefine marriage in order to recognize same-sex and multiple partner
relationships is a symptom, rather than the cause, of the erosion of the marriage culture. It
reflects a loss of understanding of the meaning of marriage as embodied in our civil and religious law and in the philosophical tradition that contributed to shaping the law. Yet it is critical that the impulse be resisted, for yielding to it would mean abandoning the possibility of restoring a sound understanding of marriage and, with it, the hope of rebuilding a healthy marriage culture. It would lock into place the false and destructive belief that marriage is all about romance and other adult satisfactions, and not, in any intrinsic way, about procreation and the unique character and value of acts and relationships whose meaning is shaped by their aptness for the generation, promotion and protection of life. In spousal communion and the rearing of children (who, as gifts of God, are the fruit of their parents’ marital love), we discover the profound reasons for and benefits of the marriage covenant.

We acknowledge that there are those who are disposed towards homosexual and polyamorous conduct and relationships, just as there are those who are disposed towards other forms of immoral conduct. We have compassion for those so disposed; we respect them as human beings possessing profound, inherent, and equal dignity; and we pay tribute to the men and women who strive, often with little assistance, to resist the temptation to yield to desires that they, no less than we, regard as wayward. We stand with them, even when they falter. We, no less than they, are sinners who have fallen short of God’s intention for our lives. We, no less than they, are in constant need of God’s patience, love and forgiveness. We call on the entire Christian community to resist sexual immorality, and at the same time refrain from disdainful condemnation of those who yield to it. Our rejection of sin, though resolute, must never become the rejection of sinners. For every sinner, regardless of the sin, is loved by God, who seeks not our destruction but rather the conversion of our hearts. Jesus calls all who wander from the path of virtue to “a more excellent way.” As his disciples we will reach out in love to assist all who hear the call and wish to answer it.

We further acknowledge that there are sincere people who disagree with us, and with the
teaching of the Bible and Christian tradition, on questions of sexual morality and the nature of marriage. Some who enter into same-sex and polyamorous relationships no doubt regard their unions as truly marital. They fail to understand, however, that marriage is made possible by the sexual complementarity of man and woman, and that the comprehensive, multi-level sharing of life that marriage is includes bodily unity of the sort that unites husband and wife biologically as a reproductive unit. This is because the body is no mere extrinsic instrument of the human person, but truly part of the personal reality of the human being. Human beings are not merely centers of consciousness or emotion, or minds, or spirits, inhabiting non-personal bodies. The human person is a dynamic unity of body, mind, and spirit. Marriage is what one man and one woman establish when, forsaking all others and pledging lifelong commitment, they found a sharing of life at every level of being—the biological, the emotional, the dispositional, the rational, the spiritual—
on a commitment that is sealed, completed and actualized by loving sexual intercourse in which the spouses become one flesh, not in some merely metaphorical sense, but by fulfilling together the behavioral conditions of procreation. That is why in the Christian tradition, and historically in Western law, consummated marriages are not dissoluble or annullable on the ground of infertility, even though the nature of the marital relationship is shaped and structured by its intrinsic orientation to the great good of procreation.

We understand that many of our fellow citizens, including some Christians, believe that the
historic definition of marriage as the union of one man and one woman is a denial of equality or civil rights. They wonder what to say in reply to the argument that asserts that no harm would be done to them or to anyone if the law of the community were to confer upon two men or two women who are living together in a sexual partnership the status of being “married.” It would not, after all, affect their own marriages, would it? On inspection, however, the argument that laws governing one kind of marriage will not affect another cannot stand. Were it to prove anything, it would prove far too much: the assumption that the legal status of one set of marriage relationships affects no other would not only argue for same sex partnerships; it could be asserted with equal validity for polyamorous partnerships, polygamous households, even adult brothers, sisters, or brothers and sisters living in incestuous relationships. Should these, as a matter of equality or civil rights, be recognized as lawful marriages, and would they have no effects on other relationships? No. The truth is that marriage is not something abstract or neutral that the law may legitimately define and re-define to please those who are powerful and influential.

No one has a civil right to have a non-marital relationship treated as a marriage. Marriage is an objective reality—a covenantal union of husband and wife—that it is the duty of the law to
recognize and support for the sake of justice and the common good. If it fails to do so, genuine social harms follow. First, the religious liberty of those for whom this is a matter of conscience is jeopardized. Second, the rights of parents are abused as family life and sex education programs in schools are used to teach children that an enlightened understanding recognizes as “marriages” sexual partnerships that many parents believe are intrinsically non-marital and immoral. Third, the common good of civil society is damaged when the law itself, in its critical pedagogical function, becomes a tool for eroding a sound understanding of marriage on which the flourishing of the marriage culture in any society vitally depends. Sadly, we are today far from having a thriving marriage culture. But if we are to begin the critically important process of reforming our laws and mores to rebuild such a culture, the last thing we can afford to do is to re-define marriage in such a way as to embody in our laws a false proclamation about what marriage is.

And so it is out of love (not “animus”) and prudent concern for the common good (not “prejudice”), that we pledge to labor ceaselessly to preserve the legal definition of marriage as the union of one man and one woman and to rebuild the marriage culture. How could we, as Christians, do otherwise? The Bible teaches us that marriage is a central part of God’s creation covenant. Indeed, the union of husband and wife mirrors the bond between Christ and his church. And so just as Christ was willing, out of love, to give Himself up for the church in a complete sacrifice, we are willing, lovingly, to make whatever sacrifices are required of us for the sake of the inestimable treasure that is marriage.

Religious Liberty
The Spirit of the Sovereign LORD is on me, because the LORD has anointed me to preach good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from darkness for the prisoners. Isaiah 61:1

Give to Caesar what is Caesar's, and to God what is God's. Matthew 22:21

The struggle for religious liberty across the centuries has been long and arduous, but it is not a novel idea or recent development. The nature of religious liberty is grounded in the character of God Himself, the God who is most fully known in the life and work of Jesus Christ. Determined to follow Jesus faithfully in life and death, the early Christians appealed to the manner in which the Incarnation had taken place: “Did God send Christ, as some suppose, as a tyrant brandishing fear and terror? Not so, but in gentleness and meekness..., for compulsion is no attribute of God” (Epistle to Diognetus 7.3-4). Thus the right to religious freedom has its foundation in the example of Christ Himself and in the very dignity of the human person created in the image of God—a dignity, as our founders proclaimed, inherent in every human, and knowable by all in the exercise of right reason.

Christians confess that God alone is Lord of the conscience. Immunity from religious coercion is the cornerstone of an unconstrained conscience. No one should be compelled to embrace any religion against his will, nor should persons of faith be forbidden to worship God according to the dictates of conscience or to express freely and publicly their deeply held religious convictions. What is true for individuals applies to religious communities as well.

It is ironic that those who today assert a right to kill the unborn, aged and disabled and also a right to engage in immoral sexual practices, and even a right to have relationships integrated around these practices be recognized and blessed by law—such persons claiming these “rights” are very often in the vanguard of those who would trample upon the freedom of others to express their religious and moral commitments to the sanctity of life and to the dignity of marriage as the conjugal union of husband and wife.

We see this, for example, in the effort to weaken or eliminate conscience clauses, and therefore to compel pro-life institutions (including religiously affiliated hospitals and clinics), and pro-life physicians, surgeons, nurses, and other health care professionals, to refer for abortions and, in certain cases, even to perform or participate in abortions. We see it in the use of anti- discrimination statutes to force religious institutions, businesses, and service providers of various sorts to comply with activities they judge to be deeply immoral or go out of business. After the judicial imposition of “same-sex marriage” in Massachusetts, for example, Catholic Charities chose with great reluctance to end its century-long work of helping to place orphaned children in good homes rather than comply with a legal mandate that it place children in same-sex households in violation of Catholic moral teaching. In New Jersey, after the establishment of a quasi-marital “civil unions” scheme, a Methodist institution was stripped of its tax exempt status when it declined, as a matter of religious conscience, to permit a facility it owned and operated to be used for ceremonies blessing homosexual unions. In Canada and some European nations, Christian clergy have been prosecuted for preaching Biblical norms against the practice of homosexuality. New hate-crime laws in America raise the specter of the same practice here.

In recent decades a growing body of case law has paralleled the decline in respect for religious values in the media, the academy and political leadership, resulting in restrictions on the free exercise of religion. We view this as an ominous development, not only because of its threat to the individual liberty guaranteed to every person, regardless of his or her faith, but because the trend also threatens the common welfare and the culture of freedom on which our system of republican government is founded. Restrictions on the freedom of conscience or the ability to hire people of one’s own faith or conscientious moral convictions for religious institutions, for example, undermines the viability of the intermediate structures of society, the essential buffer against the overweening authority of the state, resulting in the soft despotism Tocqueville so prophetically warned of.1 Disintegration of civil society is a prelude to tyranny.

As Christians, we take seriously the Biblical admonition to respect and obey those in authority. We believe in law and in the rule of law. We recognize the duty to comply with laws whether we happen to like them or not, unless the laws are gravely unjust or require those subject to them to do something unjust or otherwise immoral. The biblical purpose of law is to preserve order and serve justice and the common good; yet laws that are unjust—and especially laws that purport to compel citizens to do what is unjust—undermine the common good, rather than serve it.

Going back to the earliest days of the church, Christians have refused to compromise their
proclamation of the gospel. In Acts 4, Peter and John were ordered to stop preaching. Their
answer was, “Judge for yourselves whether it is right in God's sight to obey you rather than God. For we cannot help speaking about what we have seen and heard.” Through the centuries, Christianity has taught that civil disobedience is not only permitted, but sometimes required. There is no more eloquent defense of the rights and duties of religious conscience than the one offered by Martin Luther King, Jr., in his Letter from a Birmingham Jail. Writing from an explicitly Christian perspective, and citing Christian writers such as Augustine and Aquinas, King taught that just laws elevate and ennoble human beings because they are rooted in the moral law whose ultimate source is God Himself. Unjust laws degrade human beings. Inasmuch as they can claim no authority beyond sheer human will, they lack any power to bind in conscience. King’s willingness to go to jail, rather than comply with legal injustice, was exemplary and inspiring.

Because we honor justice and the common good, we will not comply with any edict that purports to compel our institutions to participate in abortions, embryo-destructive research, assisted suicide and euthanasia, or any other anti-life act; nor will we bend to any rule purporting to force us to bless immoral sexual partnerships, treat them as marriages or the equivalent, or refrain from proclaiming the truth, as we know it, about morality and immorality and marriage and the family. We will fully and ungrudgingly render to Caesar what is Caesar’s. But under no circumstances will we render to Caesar what is God’s.

Drafting Committee

Robert George Professor, McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence,
Princeton University
Timothy George Professor, Beeson Divinity School, Samford
University
Chuck Colson Founder, the Chuck Colson Center for Christian Worldview
(Lansdowne, VA)

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Alexis de Tocqueville, Democracy in America

A message to all my friends (and hopefully well beyond).

[Before I continue with my latest post, I feel I should re-post the first few blogs I had written on Facebook. Here is the very first one I published back in January 2010.]

I am a born again Christian.

Hopefully many (if not all of you) know this fact about me. What most of you probably don’t know is that for many years I’ve been a compromising Christian.

What do I mean by that?

I’ve always had a strong relationship with God, and I was a very strong Christian all the way up through High School. But I felt that I didn’t have enough friends. I was only into church, comic books, wrestling and video games and it was hard for me to make friends with anyone who wasn’t into those things back then. That resulted in me having very few friends and just not feeling very accepted, especially outside of church. The one thing that I felt (at the time) kept me from having friends the most was my faith. Because I used to be made fun of for what I believed in, like not using profane language (and being harassed to curse when I didn’t want to and sometimes being beat up for refusing), or being called gay because I didn’t go around kissing girls like many of the other boys my age did. Even when I was offered, I didn’t like, let alone love these girls, so I didn’t see the point and I would politely turn them down. I would also encounter people who didn’t want to hear about God and being rude to me just because I was a Christian.

In an attempt to become more popular I tried to change myself over when I got to college. I lost a ton of weight, became more outgoing, expanded my horizons in my interests, and I slightly pushed God into the background (still serving him and remaining faithful, but not letting it be as obvious to my friends). And while many of these things worked for me and I’ve made an amazing network of friends, the last thing I did, was probably one of the stupidest moves I’ve made in my life. Recently, as I’ve grown closer to God I’ve experienced so many blessings, and it’s upsetting to know that I could have had these blessing years ago if I had only stayed on the path I was on, no matter the cost.

But God is good and has always been a part of my life and has always had a calling on me. I’ve grown stronger in my relationship with him, but I still felt I tried to justify some of the things I did and compromised too much, like in the music I listen to, movies I watch, the way I talk and acted, and most importantly- not expressing how I truly felt on a variety of topics, for fear I’d either be made fun of, or worse yet- that I would lose the friends I worked so hard
to make.

But I’m tired of living in fear, especially of losing my friends. We’re all adults at this point, and if people decide they don’t want to be friends with me anymore due to my beliefs (and expressing who I truly am) then that is something that I feel would be unfortunate, but will have to live with. I hope this won’t come to be, but I don’t know how people will react to some of the things I may say in the future. My prayer is that everyone has an open mind to things, just as I have had an open mind to the many things I’ve seen and experienced over the years.

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One of the things God has put upon my heart is to spread his word. And I intend to do that through my blog. Whenever God puts a word in my heart I am going to type it out and post it and hopefully everyone on my friends list (and far beyond) will read it and respond (even if you disagree with what is stated, b/c there is nothing wrong with a healthy, civil debate).

The first message God has put on my heart to share is actually a challenge.

I challenge everyone reading this to examine what you really believe in terms of God and religion. This message is more specifically focused to those who actually already do go to church (no matter what kind of church it is- Born-again, Catholic, etc), or believe in God in some manner (even if you don’t practice). But please, even if you don’t fall into either of those categories, I’d like to hear your opinions.

So once again, the question(s) are: what do you really believe? What are you looking for by going to church or even just praying (for those that don’t fully practice)?

I fully believe that everyone is searching for something. Some of you may not want to agree with me or take offense at the notion that your life is missing something, but especially if you are going to church, or have some kind of belief in God, then you are searching for something. Maybe you are searching for an answer to something going on in your life, or the mysteries of the world, maybe you are searching for happiness, for comfort, for healing (emotional or physical), help/deliverance on a particular issue or even escape.

Whatever it may be, are you finding it? And if you are, is it staying with you once you leave church or say that prayer? Are you maintaining it and living the life meant for you as a Christian/believer of God of or are you only going to church (or having a talk with God) just to get your weekly/monthly/annual fix and hope it lasts?

To be a Christian means to be “Christ-like.” Being a Christian is not just something we just check on a box on a survey and claim ourselves as. It isn’t a title- it’s a relationship. One of my favorite quotes that always comes to my mind when I’m struggling (or see a fellow Christian struggling) with something is:

“The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians, who acknowledge Jesus with their lips and walk out the door and live on by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.” DC Talk “What If I Stumble?”

If you call yourself a Christian or Catholic then you need to act like it in ALL aspects. Doing good deeds is nice, and “living right” is good too, but it is not enough either. It’s not the same as having a relationship with God and that is what I hope for everyone. If you’re going to church, or saying you believe in God and proclaim yourself a Christian/Catholic and you’re still using profane language, having sex outside of marriage, gossiping, smoking/drinking/doing drugs (destroying God’s temple), etc then how are you like Christ?

The purpose of church is not to make us feel good. Yes, we may feel good after attending, especially after confessing and being forgiven from sins. But if you leave and go back to do things you did before, then what was the point?

Now, don’t mistake me. People do fall- NO ONE is perfect. You may go out and immediately commit a sin (we all do at one time or another), but are you sorry? Do you feel guilt? Did you even try to stop yourself from sinning in the first place?

If so, and you confess, then God will forgive you of your sins. However, the catch that many people forget about is that now you must do your best to not commit that same sin again. You shouldn’t keep repeating and asking for forgiveness from the same sin. Technically, you can, and if you are truly repentant, you will be forgiven. But that’s not the way it’s meant to be, and honestly, if you are asking forgiveness for the same infraction over and over again, how truly sorry for it are you? Eventually, committing that same sin is going to reach into other areas in your life and possibly pull you away from God altogether (intentionally or not).

One major consequence of sin, that many people do not even realize is that it leads to anger and even hate toward others in order to deflect from their own sin. Granted, some “Christians” will do this as well and harshly judge (which we should not do at all) in order to feel better about the sins they are trying to hide themselves. An example is “Christians” that bully (physically and verbally) people that disagree with them, especially on such hot-button topics as abortion and homosexuality. However, you cannot let these people and their actions affect YOUR walk with God and personal relationship with Jesus. They are merely distractions and obstacles set in front of you by Satan himself to keep you from God.

The fact is, being a Christian isn’t easy! One thing I learned this weekend at the retreat I went on is “You can’t get to God through convenience or comfortability.” Look at the example of Abraham in Genesis 22, where God tests Abraham by asking him to sacrifice his only beloved son on an altar. In the end, God told Abraham to not do it, but he just wanted to make sure Abraham had the right faith to trust in God and follow all his commands, even if they don’t seem to make sense.

And while that may be an extreme example, we are still asked to make sacrifices in this day and age. This is another major obstacle in the path for people to truly find what they are looking for in God. Everyone comes to God with baggage and some things are harder for people to get rid of than others.

You are required to lay something on the altar to sacrifice in order to receive God’s blessings. Your old self and habits need to die and you need to lay it on the altar. And you cannot ask and pray, “Lord, lay [insert problem here] on the altar.” No, it must be brought by you. [FYI, I don’t mean a literal altar. I simply mean confessing it to God and completely giving something up that has a hold on your life]. And it can’t just be anything. You can’t “get over” on God. Paraphrasing another verse from Genesis, you should not bring something to God that you wouldn’t want yourself (ex. from the Bible, people bringing animals that were sick or injured to the altar to sacrifice instead of their best animals as they were commanded. They brought the “lesser” animals because it wouldn’t be so much of a loss to them, and they can still feel good about themselves for “still obeying” God by offering a sacrifice). God doesn’t want your dregs. He wants your best. So don’t start small- you may say something along the lines of “ok, I think I curse too much, I’ll try to stop.” That’s all well and good, but is that the root of the problem? Usually people curse out of anger, so there may be an underlying issue/problem you need to address. You need to bring before God the BEST to sacrifice, not the minor things. Don’t bring to God all the small problems and hold on to what is the root of the problem. You may fix the minor issue, but what does it accomplish? Or more likely than not, you won’t fix the smaller issue and you will end up saying to yourself “if I can’t even fix that minor thing, what hope do I have of solving this larger issue?”

Meaning you may need to bring forth the thing, person, plan, agenda, that you treasure most, for example, your computer, TV, even a significant other, if that is what is causing you to sin. One of the 10 Commandments is “… thou shalt have no other gods before me.” And that doesn’t just mean actual “gods.” Anything that you value in your life more than God is considered a God to you. If your life revolves around your computer (like with World of Warcraft or even Facebook), you can’t do anything without it, you make all your decisions based around it and it affects other areas of your life, than that computer is your God. The same for anything else in your life, even things that may seem positive- like centering everything in your life around saving money specifically to buy a house. Yes, that is a great goal, but if that is the driving force in your life and 90% of your decisions are focused on that, then that is your God. Everyone needs to trust in the actual God, and then all their secondary desires will be fulfilled if it falls within God’s plan for you. Because in the end, we may not always get what we want, but God will always provide what we need.

In the end, many people just don’t realize the opportunity they have. We live in a country with many religious freedoms. Many Christians go to church and take God’s love and mercy for granted. There are people in the world that would literally die to be in our position (to even just be able to openly talk about God, let alone attend church). If you are not taking advantage, then what are you going for?

I know so many people, even in my group of friends that are looking for the secret to happiness. Reading books on the subject, searching around in other areas, but the answer is right in the Bible, Psalm 119 to be exact. It states plain as day- “Happy are all who perfectly follow the laws of God. Happy are all who search for God and always do his will, rejecting compromise with evil and walking only in his paths.”

Some may say, “I know plenty of Christians that aren’t happy people. Actually, I know some that are downright mean and miserable.” And I say to you, if that’s the case then they probably aren’t following what the Bible says. They very well may not even be real Christians. Because the flat out honest truth is, going to church does NOT make someone a Christian (or Catholic or whatever denomination a person may identify as). As it says in the Bible (in many places, see: Acts 4:12, John 14:6, John 3:16, John 3:36, and 1 John 5:11 as just a few examples), the only way to be saved is to accept Jesus Christ into your heart as your Lord and personal savior AND follow his laws (as stated above) in order to maintain it. Now I’m not saying that accepting Jesus is going to be like some magic trick where all of a sudden all your problems disappear; not at all. You will probably still face many trials, but at least now when you go through them, there is true hope behind it and faith that there will be a better tomorrow. There are so many people all over this world that do not have that. They just want that glow, that peace, that happiness that can truly only come from knowing Jesus. Think of all the people you know. Think about who has that special something and who doesn’t? I think for the most part, the ones that come to your mind will most likely have something in common.

If you want what is missing from your life, then please feel free to contact me or anyone you may trust in your local church. I will definitely pray for you.

If you agree with what God has put on my heart to share, let me know. If you completely disagree, then let me know as well (but let’s keep it clean and civil please), I have no problem debating any of the things I’ve put on the table with anyone.

My hope is that at the very least, what I have written has gotten you to think. That’s all I’m asking for right now. The Lord has placed on my heart a few more things to share as well, but those will come over time. Thank you for reading though, I really appreciate it. I love all of you. God Bless!

I'm back... with a new direction.

It's been almost three years since I've posted on this site (I had moved onto Myspace and then Facebook, but even then I wasn't updating as much as here). I've decided to return to this site, but my focus will no longer be on just blogging about what's been going on in my life. I've grown a lot as a Christian, especially over the last couple of years. So now, this site will be dedicated to me creating "devotionals," giving opinions on topics that affect Christians (and the world as a whole), and spreading the Word of God.

So keep checking in and let me know what you think about what I have to say. Even if you don't want to comment publicly, please feel free to contact me privately, as many topics are very open to discussion.